Sexual Problems

Have you Lost Confidence in Your Ability to Have an Erection?

Are You Afraid of Ejaculating Too Soon?

Have You Lost All Desire For Sex?

Intimacy and passion are what most people crave, yet there are many people who are afraid of intimacy. They do not allow themselves to experience it. They feel they do not deserve it.

How Hypnosis May Help Promote RecoveryLoving Couple2

Hypnosis may be utilized to:-

  • Uncover the cause behind your sexual problem, so that it can be understood and acted upon.
  • Eradicate the conditioning effect – This means re-educating the mind so that you can once again associate sex with the appropriate physical and emotional feelings and state of mind.
  • Teach a person anxiety reduction and decompression
  • Enhance arousal of sexual passion through sexual visualization and fantasy prior to sexual involvement (self-hypnosis cds)

How NLP May Promote Recovery

  • NLP affords several techniques to help a person change how they think, feel and behave.
  • It has been recognized that many people with mind/body dysfunctions have rigid “black and white” thinking.  This type of thinking leads to an expectancy of failure and the body will respond accordingly. This is because whatever happens in the mind is mirrored in the body.  This is what happens when we become aroused by a thought or image.  The more we have these thought patterns they are re-enforced and strengthened.

What Causes Sexual Problems?

  • To punish either themselves or partner – infidelity, past misbehaviors
  • Anger toward a partner.
  • A negative body image – penis size, women who think their vaginas are ugly or different – causes shame and embarrassment and can lead to inhibitions to sexual desire.
  • Fear of being interrupted – this can often be the cause of premature ejaculation in men who had a fear of being caught masturbating as a teenager.
  • Guilt about excessive masturbation as a child and teenager can cause a person to believe that they have damaged or deformed their genitalia in some way not realizing that everyone is a different shape and size.
  • Physical and mental tension and fatigue often inhibit sexual interest and cause performance anxiety.

Many people feel they are beyond help, which this puts severe strain and pressure on a relationship. When people worry they lose confidence and clam up.

Anxiety breeds more anxiety which makes things worse.  Worrying about it manifests an actual problem.  The person then expects it to happen which causes a conditioning effect.  Then even thinking about it can cause anxiety which inhibits natural sex response or desire.


The Counselling & Psychotherapy Centre, 23 Bath Road, Swindon, SN1 4AS

Fees: £55 ad hoc for a 1.5 hour session subsequent sessions £45/hr

All fees are inclusive of free cds to support you between sessions.

Use the Power of Your Mind

Hypnosis provides hope, increased feelings of self-efficacy and confidence that change can occur.   Perhaps your mind is powerful enough to stir sexual desire, facilitate orgasm, or create erections.

‘Phone Linda direct on 07708 961 073 e-mail

Read Linda’s article to learn more about sexual dysfunctions

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