Meditating is the formal practice of mindfulness. You can also practice mindfulness informally by practicing being "in the moment" during daily activities. This article explains how to do this and why it is beneficial to you.
Most people are aware of the principles of being mindful. Knowing about and understanding it is not enough to motivate a person to take steps to be more mindful. We are so busy in our daily life that committing to what seems yet another task can be overwhelming. This article seeks to highlight ways of being mindful without meditating. Mindfulness is not something we do it is a way of being.
Let me first clarify what mindfulness is. It’s certainly not about spending an hour every day doing nothing and trying to make one’s mind go blank. Being mindful is setting the intention to be fully present in the current moment. Taking complaisance of our emotions, sensations in our body and our internal thoughts. Developing what we call the triangle of awareness is the starting point of mindfulness.
Why is it important to do this?
By default our mind goes on and on. It is never blank. Rarely are we focusing on our current experience. Usually we are absorbed in the past. Remembering, angering, resenting, interpreting something that happened or, if we are not reminiscing, we are thinking about the future. Predicting, worrying, with all sorts of scenarios playing in our mind.
If we have perpetual negative thoughts we trigger stress responses in our body. This is because our body doesn’t know the difference between what is real and what is imagined. If our body in a state of constant stress, it affects our mood and we feel unhappy. This prevents us from enjoying the pleasure of now.
Constant stress and unhappiness can become our norm. It is often not until we are lying on a beach or are in some other place in nature that we can relax and be in the present moment.
Mindfulness practices help us to be in the now. To be aware of what we are feeling. What we are experiencing in our body. What we are saying to ourselves. How we are interpreting the now. What stories we are telling ourselves. Our interpretations of the now are often based on the beliefs we have formed about ourselves, others and the world around us. These beliefs are our filters of how we experience the world.
When we are being mindful we can be cognisant of our current experience at that precise moment BEFORE we spiral into old patterns of behaviour and emotional reactivity. So often we do or say something that later, when we have calmed down we regret.
The challenge for most of us, is taking the necessary steps to change. We may view it as just one more thing that we have to do in our already hectic lives. When we go gung- ho into a “project” of personal growth it becomes unsustainable. Then we default to our old ways of being.
As I mentioned before, mindfulness is not something you do it is a way of being. We can set the intention to be mindful as we go about our normal daily activities observing :-
And we can do this whilst we are:-
When we practice mindfulness in our daily activities we become more conscious of ourselves and our responses. We become aware of our default patterns and in that moment we can choose to think, feel and react in a different way. We can also become more aware of the joy and pleasure in our lives.
So, we don’t have to set aside time every day to do mindfulness. In the everyday activities of our lives we can practice being mindful.
What I have described is the informal practice of mindfulness. You can later begin to practice the formal mindfulness practice of meditation.
Daily mindfulness practices can reduce stress, anxiety and depression in just 6 weeks. Contact me if you want to know more. For some time I taught mindfulness practices in a rehab treatment center. The gentlemen reported a marked reduction in cravings.